- Anxiety or chronic tension
- Overthinking and self-doubt
- People-pleasing or difficulty setting boundaries
- Emotional numbness or feeling stuck
Somatic Experiencing for Trauma Recovery
Somatic Experiencing Therapy for Childhood Trauma and Anxiety
Somatic Experiencing (SE) is a trauma-informed approach that helps heal the effects of childhood trauma, anxiety, and chronic stress by working directly with the nervous system.
Many people come to therapy with a good understanding of their past, yet still feel anxious, overwhelmed, or disconnected. Insight is important, but lasting change also involves the nervous system.
SE helps you develop greater awareness of how stress and trauma affect your body and supports your ability to feel more regulated and connected to yourself. It works alongside talk therapy to support deeper and more lasting healing.
How Trauma Lives in the Body
When overwhelming experiences happen, your nervous system shifts into survival mode. Even years later, those protective responses can remain active.
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In Somatic Experiencing®, we work with the signals of your nervous system. As old survival patterns begin to release, you will begin to feel more grounded and present.
What Changes as Your Nervous System Heals
1. Greater Self-Trust
Trust yourself more and rely less on others’ approval.
2. More Emotional Flexibility
Feel difficult emotions without becoming overwhelmed.
3. Less Reactivity
Respond with more choice and less automatic reaction.
4. Feeling More Like Yourself
Feel more grounded, confident, and willing to be on your own side.
Life Beyond Survival Mode
As your nervous system begins to feel safer, you may notice changes that once seemed impossible.
You may find yourself speaking up more easily and worrying less about how others will respond.
You may be able to feel sadness, anger, or disappointment without becoming overwhelmed by them.
Situations that once left you feeling stuck will begin to feel more manageable. Instead of reacting automatically, you have more choice in how you respond.
These shifts often happen gradually. Over time, many clients describe feeling more grounded, more empowered, and better able to move through life as their true selves.
What to Expect in Our Sessions
Safety and support
A manageable pace
Conversation and body awareness
Staying connected to the present
Corrective experiences
Somatic Therapy FAQ’S
Somatic Experiencing sessions move at a pace that feels manageable. Together, we’ll gently explore and be curious about your bodily sensations and notice how the body always naturally settles at the end of a stress response cycle. We will get to better understand your nervous system while helping you feel more grounded and regulated. You remain in control of the pace at all times.
Traditional talk therapy often focuses on thoughts, emotions, and insight. Somatic Experiencing also works with your body’s responses to stress and trauma, helping your nervous system recover from experiences that may still be affecting you.
You can safely practice simple somatic exercises such as grounding, body awareness, and breathing techniques on your own. However, working through unresolved trauma is generally most effective with the support of a trained Somatic Experiencing practitioner or trauma-informed therapist.
Somatic therapy focuses on your body’s responses rather than talking only about your thoughts. Together, we notice physical sensations, gently regulate your nervous system, and help your body release survival responses that may still be keeping you stuck.
Many people are surprised by how gentle this work feels. With support and a manageable pace, clients often feel calmer, more grounded, and better able to face life’s challenges.
A CASE STUDY
Reclaiming Power After Years of Bullying
My client, a transgender man in his late 20s, came to therapy struggling with anxiety, low self-esteem, and difficulty asserting himself in family dynamics. Throughout his life, he had been bullied by an older cousin during family gatherings – a pattern that began in childhood and continued into adulthood. These encounters left him feeling small, ashamed, and powerless.
Most recently, a disagreement at a family event escalated into a conflict that divided relatives. Although he deeply wanted to speak up in defense of his immediate family, he found himself frozen, unable to respond.
In our sessions, we explored this freeze response and its roots in earlier experiences of helplessness. Using talk therapy, we unpacked the emotional layers of his silence, recognizing it as a survival response learned early in life. Then, we brought in Somatic Experiencing (SE) techniques to begin shifting this stuck pattern.
I invited him to visualize returning to that family event, but this time surrounded by powerful, protective figures of his choosing – beings who embodied strength and safety. We recreated the moment in which he had wanted to act but could not, and I guided him to physically push against the wall with intention. This simple movement activated his arm muscles – the same muscles that had remained frozen during past confrontations.
We repeated the pushing exercise several times, each time adding a phrase like “Stop” or “You can’t hurt me anymore.” After each round, we paused to check in with his body – tracking sensations, noticing shifts. By the end of the session, he reported feeling lighter, stronger, and more present. A long-held sense of powerlessness began to lift. He left the session feeling not only heard, but physically empowered, connected to a strength he had not known was available to him.
A More Grounded Way of Living
As your nervous system becomes more regulated, life will begin to feel different. You may find yourself speaking up more easily, trusting yourself more often, and feeling less controlled by anxiety.
Situations that once felt overwhelming will become more manageable. Many clients describe feeling more clear and confident, and more able to be on their own side.
Ready to explore whether Somatic Experiencing therapy is right for you?